Buying a vibrator for the first time can be a little awkward, even awkward. But don’t let that put you off. This is also very interesting.
Even if you’re new to sex toys, the rest of the world isn’t either. This means there are tons of options on the market when it comes to buying a vibrator. Get ready to be wowed!
If you want to give it a try but aren’t sure where to start, we’re here to help. We’ll pair you up with your new, hilarious best friend in no time… and you’ll never look back.
Reasons to buy a vibrator
Increase your happiness
While experts aren’t sure why vibrators feel so good, they do know they can help increase sexual pleasure for both men and women. The hormone oxytocin is released during orgasm, which may increase your sense of well-being, affection, and contentment.
Understand your body and what brings you to orgasm
Remember how excited you were the first time you explored your body? If you haven’t felt such pleasure and stimulation in years, use a vibrator. It can give you the confidence to tell your partner how to please you, or you can pleasure yourself in the bedroom with your new best friend.
Enhance the fun of single-player gaming
Even if you’re single, a vibrator can take masturbation to the next level. In fact, some women need vibrators to orgasm, so if you have trouble reaching orgasm on your own, it’s worth a try. If you’ve never used a vibrator before, check out our tips for beginners. There are a variety of vibrator types on the market, so you’re bound to find one you like.
Improve your overall relationship
The positive effects of using a vibrator may spill over to other aspects of your relationship. When you satisfy your desire for pleasure and physical intimacy, it can make your partner more loving and affectionate. Because let’s face it, a contented, happy person makes a great partner in the bedroom.
Better sex with your partner
A vibrator can do wonders for your sex life. For many people, a few toys (or toys for him and her) can enhance the thrill and pleasure of sex. If your sex life is lackluster, or it’s been a while since you’ve had fun in the bedroom with your man, sex toys might reignite the spark and help improve your relationship. If either of you has never used them before, start slowly. Try different types and see what you like.
What type of vibrator do you prefer?
Buying a vibrator is entirely up to you and your self-pleasure. This is not a one-size-fits-all purchase.
Think about whether you get pleasure from stimulation of the G-spot, the clitoris, both, or somewhere else. Do you like inner, outer, hard, tender…or a mixture of them? Do you enjoy the same sensations every time, or do you want to expand the scope of your self-pleasure? According to Aimi.com:
“Most women find it easier to reach orgasm through clitoral stimulation than any other stimulation, which is why vibrators are one of the most popular sex toys.”
How to choose the best vibrator
G-Spot Vibrator (Best Feeling)
If you like G-spot stimulation (and most women do), the Desire Luxury Rechargeable G-Spot Vibrator is a great place to start. For wider vaginal sensation and vibration, a small Frigga Lay On massager would be perfect.
rabbit vibrator
Rabbit vibrators are designed to stimulate the vagina and clitoris simultaneously. Its shaft acts as an internal vibrator, and its smaller rabbit-shaped extension targets the clitoris.
If you’re not sure, buy one with a few extra features so you can try it out and see what excites you the most. The Happy Rabbit G-Spot Rechargeable Rabbit Vibrator is a great first stop on your vibration journey.
Distributor: Lovehoney
clitoral vibrator
If you want a vibrator that stimulates your clitoris, clitoral vibrators are designed specifically for that. They come in all shapes and sizes, from small and discreet models to larger, more powerful ones. These vibrators focus on providing intense and direct stimulation to the clitoris, so you’ll have fast and intense orgasms.
suction vibrator
If you enjoy oral sex, a suction vibrator is perfect. It uses air pressure to create a suction effect on the clitoris, simulating the feeling of oral sex. These vibrations often come in a variety of intensity settings, so be prepared for intense and highly pleasurable external stimulation.
Best vibrators for beginners
If you’re buying your first sex toy, choose a vibrator that’s easy to use.
bullet vibrator
Bullet vibrators are small, discreet yet versatile. They can be used to stimulate the clitoris or enhance other erogenous zones. Despite their size, bullet vibrators are very powerful. This is our favorite portable option for taking the fun on the go.
Wand Vibrator (Best Penetration)
Maybe you travel a lot and enjoy staying close to your new friends? If this is the case, don’t worry. When it comes to vibrators, “less” doesn’t mean “less.” Super convenient if you want to use your vibrator on the go! The Kiss Me Lipstick Vibrator fits right into your handbag when you need it!
Distributor: LoveHoney
Vibrator Buying Guide: Frequently Asked Questions
What is the difference between a vibrator and a dildo?
Well, it’s easy. The purpose of a vibrator is to vibrate. Not so with dildos.
Dildos are more phallic in nature, designed for penetration, and come in a variety of materials to enhance pleasure, including rubber and glass. If a dildo is more appealing, you could try the Basix Slim 7-inch suction cup dildo, but there are many others on the market. Find a product that satisfies your senses…and your naughty side.
Stockist: Adult Toy Store
Does your vibrator fit your lifestyle?
Strange question? not at all!
As ladies and oversharers in general, we wouldn’t bat an eyelid, but others might, hey, discretion is kind of classy. Plus, if you have kids, they have an uncanny way of discovering mommy’s toys at inopportune times, so be prepared! If your vibrator is for home use only, make sure you find a good hiding place or buy something to fool even the most perceptive of kids.
Lovense’s Lush 3 Bluetooth Vibrator is a completely non-phallic vibrator that can be placed around (pardon the pun) wherever you like. We love customizing vibration settings. It’s so small that it even acts as a hands-free headset if you need to think quickly!
Further reading: If your child discovers 14 sex toys that can be disguised.
Also, consider the vibrator’s noise level based on where you live and how long you plan to use it, i.e. the quieter the better. Not only that, but the sound of a jackhammer is definitely not conducive to feeling sexy. Fortunately, most vibrators are made of silicone, which can muffle sound, but as a general guide, the more money you pay, the more discrete their sound will be. We love this silent and waterproof clitoral massager.
Further Reading: 10 Ultra-Quiet Vibrators That Won’t Wake Up Your Family.
If your vibrator isn’t suitable for you to use alone and you have a partner to use with you, a remote-controlled vibrator is a great option. It lets you control how much fun your partner has, even when you’re not together!
How to clean a vibrator
To clean your vibrator, first turn it off and remove all batteries. Use warm water and mild soap to gently wash while removing all lubricants. Rinse thoroughly and avoid any electrical components. Dry with a clean towel. Store in a cool, dry place until you are ready to play alone.
Eco-Friendly Vibrators (Yes, They Exist!)
We can all agree that vibrators are good for your body, mental health, and relationships. However, many sex toys end up clogging landfills, polluting oceans and adding to plastic waste. Some countries have strict regulations on the disposal of sex toys and do not accept used sex toys for recycling, so they end up in the trash. Additionally, some chemicals in plastic sex toys can be harmful. One example is phthalates, which can affect the reproductive systems of animals.
If you feel a little guilty every time you add a new toy to your cart, there’s reason to celebrate. While vibrators are not as reusable as clothing and accessories, there is a growing market for sustainable sex toys. If you’re wondering what eco-friendly toys to buy, the options are getting better and better, from recycled dildos to vibrators made from plant-based plastic.
Many top brands are moving away from traditional materials, energy and manufacturing methods. For example, plastics are being replaced by medical-grade silicone, and battery-operated toys are also available in rechargeable versions.
Eco-friendly vibrators tend to be more expensive than plastic vibrators, but these toys are designed not only to be more ethical and environmentally friendly, but also to be more durable and safer for the body. When looking for an eco-friendly vibe, avoid hard plastics, phthalates, porous toys that attract bacteria, and toys that require batteries. Instead, look for silicone, glass, porcelain, plant-based plastics (bioplastics), metals and upcycled/recycled materials. Also, learn about the company’s purchasing process. Toys made in factories where workers are well treated are ideal.
One of our favorite brands is Lovehoney, a company that takes sustainable happiness seriously. Their Love Not War Amore Eco-friendly Bullet Vibrator is our beginner’s choice: It’s made from recycled aluminum and silicone, feels comfortable against your skin, is USB rechargeable, and comes with a bamboo storage bag. This vibrator features 7 exciting vibration modes that will blow your mind! Talk about luxury and guilt.
Distributor: Lovehoney
Vibrator Buying Guide
Buying sex toys on the street
Sex toys are no longer taboo, it’s big business, which is great because you can browse and buy very easily. Search Google to find your nearest adult store and enjoy the touch and feel of premium store shopping. Most stores have booths where you can discuss the items on sale privately to ensure you get the perfect item. If nothing else, this will be an experience you can cross off your bucket list.
Use a vibrator you bought online
If the thought of discussing the pros and cons of sex toys with strangers is too much, the easier and more popular option is to buy online, and the options are limitless. Reputable online stores include Adultshop.com, Lovehoney, Adult Toy Megastore and Femplay.
Further reading: Australia’s best online adult stores.
You may not have the benefit of a salesperson, but you have something more real: product reviews! Please make sure to read them carefully before purchasing. All online stores will send your items in anonymous packaging so Mr. Posti won’t know.
Picture from: adultshop.com
Buy with a “friend”
If you have a man in your life, shopping for new toys together can be fun. Vibrators are a great way to spice up your sex life, so don’t overuse them! Ask him what fascinates him and buy it together. The anticipation of its arrival and the idea of the three of you getting to know each other is a sex game in itself.
No one, don’t worry. If you just want to improve your sex life, you can always ask a close friend for advice. Lovehoney even offers a 24/7 chat option so you can seriously discuss your needs with an expert… so never feel like you have to do it alone!
Choose your price
You get what you pay for with a vibrator, but that doesn’t mean you have to spend a lot of money. The Rocket Bullet Vibrator is $15 and the Thrust Bunny is $267.95.
Prices will vary based on appearance, materials, and functionality. It also depends on how much you need to spend and how important the purchase is to you.
Stockist: Adult Toys MegaStore
Summary: Finding the Right Vibrator
Don’t question buying your first vibrator or view it as an unnecessary luxury. Sex and orgasm are as natural as the trees outside your window. Whether you’re buying your first vibrator or just looking to upgrade, take the time to choose one that you’re happy with. Anything that makes you feel good without relying on others is an investment in your happiness and sexual health.
When I first wanted to try a vibrator but was afraid to try one in person, I bought one online instead. You can do the same! You may also want to add some lubricant to your cart. Enjoy your new sex toy!
