We’re almost entering the holidays, which means a lot of family time. Spending too much time with family, especially in-laws, can be stressful, exhausting, and sometimes traumatic. The holidays are supposed to be a time of giving, love, and peace on earth, but, let’s be real: It’s rarely the case.
For some of us, after decades of marriage, we’ve gotten into the groove of safely navigating in-law time without completely losing our minds. For those new to the in-laws game, two guys from the least important thing Podcast Finds the Perfect Pattern on How to Kill the In-Law Game and Come Out Unscathed: From The family stone.
as background, holiday movie family stone Follow the Stone family during the Christmas season. The whole family is home for Christmas, some bringing new lovers with them (much to the matriarch’s chagrin). Patrick married Ted, the youngest brother in the family, an experienced in-law who never showed fear and always remained calm. Patrick (played by actor Brian J. White) is the all-star of the movie and someone we all in-laws should aspire to.
“Watch the movie and study Patrick,” said podcast host Luke Ferriss.
“This is a master class in how to be an in-law or a companion who comes to a family member’s home. Be vigilant, provide support, help with household chores.
Post-broadcast guest Audrey chimed in: “Earn the respect of the matriarch.”
Luke continued: “Patrick knows everything. That’s why he drinks throughout the whole movie.
Audrey joked, “He was the only one wearing that red cup… He was constantly cooking, constantly cleaning… keeping the peace. Being a good sport.
“Be Patrick. Be Patrick. Become Patrick in your family today,” Luke said.
“Be the Patrick you want to see in your home,” Audrey reiterates.
Other TikTok users agreed with the podcaster, noting that Patrick is truly the unsung hero of the film.
“Wait a minute – that’s a great analysis of his character. I need to learn to fly under the radar, but I love making things about me,” one user joked.
“I need Patrick to tell his family about the Rolling Stones from a first person perspective…😂,” said another.
“Love Patrick. He knows what Meredith is heading for, so he balances Switzerland perfectly between the two,” another pointed out.
One user noted, “Patrick is a great partner/son-in-law. Aside from the awkward scene where they played charades, I’m glad he and Ted weren’t separated. They integrated their relationship dynamics.
“I love Patrick!! The scene where he closes the kitchen and turns off the lights always reminds me of my lovely husband.
It’s time to review my year’s work family stone And this time, I really took note of Patrick’s every move!
