The start of a new school year can feel like a whirlwind, especially for single moms who juggle meal prep, daycare, and a 9-to-5 job. I get it – a lot. That’s why this guide is here: to help you take control and feel like an amazing, capable mom. These practical tips are designed to relieve stress and keep things running smoothly. Let’s tackle this season together and get back to school with grace!
back to school survival guide
1. Develop a return to school schedule
After years of trial and error, I’ve found that a school routine is one of the best ways to keep everything organized (and my sanity intact) every time the kids start school again. Take the time to draft a simple morning schedule that includes wake-up time, breakfast, and out the door. Don’t forget to set a clear bedtime. It’s your secret weapon against the chaotic days of summer through the school year. Consistent routines create structure. It ensures everyone knows what to expect and helps avoid busy mornings and tantrums (if you have young children).
2. Plan ahead
Of course, establishing a daily routine goes hand in hand with planning ahead. Start with a monthly calendar and mark important dates such as parent-teacher conferences, school holidays, and project deadlines. If possible, share the calendar with your partner, carer, co-parent or employer to keep everyone in the loop.
Doing this will also help point out areas where you may need help. Could neighbors trade for rideshares, or could your employer offer flexible hours? Please feel free to ask. This is a valuable way to make it manageable throughout the year.
3. Create a school supplies list
The buying craze for school supplies doesn’t have to be overwhelming. Keep your list handy and save time by shopping online at AliExpress or a local store. Pro tip: Grab extra pencils and pens right away. You’ll thank yourself when your child’s stock inevitably runs out mid-year.
Organize supplies ahead of time by labeling items and setting up dedicated spots to complete homework and projects. I got the tags and personalized pack from Bright Star Kids. A little preparation can go a long way in keeping your child engaged during the school year.
4. Create a weekly meal plan
As a busy mom, meal prepping is crucial to staying on top of everything. Fill up your meal plan with simple but healthy breakfast ideas, packed lunches and easy dinners. Don’t forget the snacks! Prepare ahead of time on the weekend to save valuable time during the week. You can also get the kids involved and have fun with them while trying the recipes. You can ask them to help pack a lunch or try a new dinner recipe.
5. Spend the morning gracefully
Mornings can feel like a mad dash to the finish line, but I have a few tips to make it more manageable. Save time by getting your uniform ready and packing your lunch the night before. During the morning rush hour, even a few minutes are precious. Use a clock or timer to keep kids on track instead of nagging. There are silly moments when things don’t go as planned, like burnt bread or forgetting to do homework. When obstacles like this happen, remind yourself that it’s okay, we are all human, and tomorrow is another day.
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6. Organize after-school activities
Multitasking between projects, carpooling, and driving to practices and games every day can be stressful. Create a weekly schedule to track activities and communicate with another responsible adult, such as a coach or nanny, to share responsibilities.
If your son or daughter’s coach or teacher has a meeting time, don’t forget to talk to them and listen to them about your child’s progress. This is an effective way to stay connected and involved in school activities.
7. Prioritize self-care
Single moms often forget to take care of themselves during the back-to-school season, but taking care of yourself is crucial. Take small steps like enjoying a cup of tea after the kids go to bed or scheduling monthly dates with friends. Even a short walk or reading can help rejuvenate you. You don’t have to go overboard. Just find a way to tell yourself, Mom, that you are more than just the master of your child’s life.
8. Consistently complete your homework
Homework and homework projects are among the biggest challenges of the school year, but dealing with them doesn’t have to be stressful. Set up a quiet space where children can focus and store supplies like pencils, pens and paper. Set a consistent time for homework each day and don’t forget to check in with them. Communicating their progress can help them feel supported, and you can identify any issues early.
9. How to handle the back-to-school transition
Going back to school is a big change for you and your children. I remember when my son started first grade I was so nervous trying to keep up with all the forms, meal prep, and schedules. But later, we celebrated a small victory when he came home with a smile on his face after making his first friend. It reminds me that these small victories matter. So, take some time to organize your thoughts and expectations. Celebrate small victories, like surviving the first week or solving a tough problem. These moments prove that you can raise happy, resilient children!
Further reading: How to get your children to school on time
10. Have fun (whenever you can)
Sending your kids to school can be a hassle, but don’t forget to have some fun! Add a little spontaneity by planning bonding moments with your kids or weekend outings. It doesn’t have to be extravagant. It could be a picnic in the park, movie night at home, or going for ice cream. These moments are perfect for creating memories and taking a break from the stress of your busy schedule.
Get ready for back to school
Back-to-school is a time of change, but it doesn’t have to be overwhelming. By establishing a routine, planning ahead, and prioritizing self-care, you can manage the school year with ease. I’ve been through the rollercoaster of juggling the kids’ schedules with my own responsibilities. One thing I’ve learned is to take it one day at a time.
Sure, there will be times when it feels like everything is falling apart, but there are also those moments when your child comes home with a story that makes you laugh or a big hug that makes it all worth it. Most importantly, take care of yourself and give yourself credit. You do an amazing job playing the multiple roles of mom, caregiver, and all-around superhero. Play with your child from time to time. You deserve it and so do they.
